The true star of Bridgerton isn’t the Duke of Hastings or his ridiculous smolder, it’s Lady Danbury and her biting wit. Expertly played by Adjoa Andoh on the Netflix show, some of Lady Danbury’s best scenes involve her speaking her mind and serving as the voice of reason when a certain duke starts acting a fool. Of course, a compilation video had to include everything from introducing Daphne to her “den of iniquity” to Lady Danbury calling Simon out on his idiocy involving his relationship with his new bride. If you’re ever in desperate need of a pep talk, you can just pretend Lady Danbury is talking to you. Maybe not the scenes when she’s yelling at Simon, although he certainly deserves it. You can see some of the most iconic Lady Danbury moments in the full video above.